Thank you Kristine. I have him buried outside in the edge of a pine thicket, along with my former pets. I still think of my rat terrier (female) that I had for 16 years who died of heart failure and she has been gone since 2017. But I have many sweet memories of Thumper and I feel he is close to me just outside my kitchen window and I feel blessed.
Always difficult to lose our special friend and I am sorry for your loss. Unless you have had a pet who is friend and confidant, you cannot understand the depth of this sorrow.
Thank you John. Life is easier with the love of a pet. They seem to motivate you to be the kind of person your dog would be proud of or your cat with some people. Have you ever thought to be that person for your dog to be proud of??
Carol, after i hit send i was afraid you would think my comment insensitive. The only way i know to pull myself out of the worst of the grief is to find another animal to love. That’s where the remark was coming from. Your way is your way, and i am sending love. 🙏
J, I picked up on your feelings. I appreciate your concern and yes, you are right. Finding another animal is the natural process. We all have to go sometime and so it is with our beloved pets.
Yes, I'm sure there will be another in my future. I am reluctant to travel without my protection and night watcher. I would love to get a big red Doberman, but they scare people too much and plus they are awkward to manage in a camper car or camper van.
I am sure, as you are, Carol, that when the time is right, your companion will appear.
Too bad a Doberman would be too large for your circumstances. My husband loved his Dobies. Said they were very loving and loyal. They found him, by the way. And he never regretted it.
I’m so sorry, Carol. Thumper sounds like a wonderful companion and I’m sure you made his life just as happy as he made yours. Our pets truly are a member of the family. And what we learn is they never truly leave us, a part of them will always be with us.
I have vivid, loving memories of my pets through the years. I believe that your feelings toward a dog, or horse, or cat is a reflection of your true character. When you are compassionate and kind to animals, then you are helping humans with your attitude of care for all. So, with that, the world would become a better place for all of us, so I'm thankful for animal protection laws that we have in our country.
Just echoing others here, Carol. I'm glad you're letting yourself simply grieve. The loss you feel is surely indicative of the bond you had with thumper.
Yes, grieving a loss is part of the natural process of living. I still grieve over the losses of my loved ones gone in the past four years. But the love in spirit is alive and the memories that I carry keep me pushing on to live my best life fully, before the "roll is called up yonder" for me.
Thank you Maria. It's sad. Owls are vicious animals that live in the Sonoran Desert and have excellent hunting skills. I wish I could have been more attentive to protect Thumper, but I didn't know much about owls except what I read in children's story books.
I am very convinced that Thumper will send you the next co-pilot, to drive with you, stay with you, be in your lap, give you a dog to cuddle and be with you. Sweet clouds and dreams, Thumper, and sending you strength to deal with these days until your gift from him arrives with you again.
I am so sorry to hear this. It is coming up on the one year anniversary of losing my sweet Sam. He was 10 years old and the light of my life. I have three other dogs that are sweet as can be. But nothing takes the place of my Sam. It may take a lifetime to accept all of this. I am so sorry that you’re going through this.♥️
I know that feeling, you must have for Sam. It seems some animals (dogs in my case) are more intuitive to your thoughts than others. Just as people I suppose. I've always been kind to all animals and a contributor to animal rights. I believe God put dogs on earth to help us along the road of life and that is where the common saying "Dogs are man's best friend" comes from. It's true in my eyes anyway.
Dear Carol, I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Thumper. I know how hard it is. My Radar, the last of a pack of 4, passed in Az. A few years ago. I had to learn how to walk alone. What to do with the leash carrying arm. Presently not in a position to adopt so I am still bereft of a dog. Such a tragic ending, at least the (huge?)owl didnt win. I pray your heart heals tenderly and God sends your next perfect canine companion at the perfect time.🩵
So very sorry for this abrupt change. I don’t know if the unexpected way this played out makes it harder or not. I knew my last two partings were coming and they were still devastating.
When the time was right, I found a new companion. I know it is an uncertain bargain at our age but I am once again adventuring with a soul mate.
Sit with your loss. Remember all that was special about Thumper. But keep an open heart.
I’m so sorry for your loss and appreciate you sharing this. I have worried about my cats and wondered about owls and eagles while out camping. Maybe consider a traveling cat. They’re easy companions and good snuggles.
Blessings to you and your sweet Thumper❤️
Thank you Kristine. I have him buried outside in the edge of a pine thicket, along with my former pets. I still think of my rat terrier (female) that I had for 16 years who died of heart failure and she has been gone since 2017. But I have many sweet memories of Thumper and I feel he is close to me just outside my kitchen window and I feel blessed.
Always difficult to lose our special friend and I am sorry for your loss. Unless you have had a pet who is friend and confidant, you cannot understand the depth of this sorrow.
Thank you John. Life is easier with the love of a pet. They seem to motivate you to be the kind of person your dog would be proud of or your cat with some people. Have you ever thought to be that person for your dog to be proud of??
Interesting perspective I haven't considered, but yes, I can see their love encouraging me to be a better person.
Oh, Carol. My heart goes out to you. Bless you for keeping yourself open to thoughts of saving another. ♥️
Carol, after i hit send i was afraid you would think my comment insensitive. The only way i know to pull myself out of the worst of the grief is to find another animal to love. That’s where the remark was coming from. Your way is your way, and i am sending love. 🙏
J, I picked up on your feelings. I appreciate your concern and yes, you are right. Finding another animal is the natural process. We all have to go sometime and so it is with our beloved pets.
Hi J,
Yes, I'm sure there will be another in my future. I am reluctant to travel without my protection and night watcher. I would love to get a big red Doberman, but they scare people too much and plus they are awkward to manage in a camper car or camper van.
I am sure, as you are, Carol, that when the time is right, your companion will appear.
Too bad a Doberman would be too large for your circumstances. My husband loved his Dobies. Said they were very loving and loyal. They found him, by the way. And he never regretted it.
I’m so sorry, Carol. Thumper sounds like a wonderful companion and I’m sure you made his life just as happy as he made yours. Our pets truly are a member of the family. And what we learn is they never truly leave us, a part of them will always be with us.
Hi Mack,
I have vivid, loving memories of my pets through the years. I believe that your feelings toward a dog, or horse, or cat is a reflection of your true character. When you are compassionate and kind to animals, then you are helping humans with your attitude of care for all. So, with that, the world would become a better place for all of us, so I'm thankful for animal protection laws that we have in our country.
Oh my darling dear
Past the deafening quiet is a stillness that runs deep. I pray you can find that well and take your rest and can see your next step. If blessings luv
Just echoing others here, Carol. I'm glad you're letting yourself simply grieve. The loss you feel is surely indicative of the bond you had with thumper.
Hi John,
Yes, grieving a loss is part of the natural process of living. I still grieve over the losses of my loved ones gone in the past four years. But the love in spirit is alive and the memories that I carry keep me pushing on to live my best life fully, before the "roll is called up yonder" for me.
🙏so sorry for your loss
Thank you Maria. It's sad. Owls are vicious animals that live in the Sonoran Desert and have excellent hunting skills. I wish I could have been more attentive to protect Thumper, but I didn't know much about owls except what I read in children's story books.
😒
Namaste
What does Namaste mean? Is that Spanish?
I am very convinced that Thumper will send you the next co-pilot, to drive with you, stay with you, be in your lap, give you a dog to cuddle and be with you. Sweet clouds and dreams, Thumper, and sending you strength to deal with these days until your gift from him arrives with you again.
Thank you so much Sharon. I'll be waiting for that wonderful day to come!
I am so sorry to hear this. It is coming up on the one year anniversary of losing my sweet Sam. He was 10 years old and the light of my life. I have three other dogs that are sweet as can be. But nothing takes the place of my Sam. It may take a lifetime to accept all of this. I am so sorry that you’re going through this.♥️
Hi Ellen,
I know that feeling, you must have for Sam. It seems some animals (dogs in my case) are more intuitive to your thoughts than others. Just as people I suppose. I've always been kind to all animals and a contributor to animal rights. I believe God put dogs on earth to help us along the road of life and that is where the common saying "Dogs are man's best friend" comes from. It's true in my eyes anyway.
Always hard losing a member of the family. Remember the good times and look forward to more good times when you're ready.
Dear Carol, I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Thumper. I know how hard it is. My Radar, the last of a pack of 4, passed in Az. A few years ago. I had to learn how to walk alone. What to do with the leash carrying arm. Presently not in a position to adopt so I am still bereft of a dog. Such a tragic ending, at least the (huge?)owl didnt win. I pray your heart heals tenderly and God sends your next perfect canine companion at the perfect time.🩵
So very sorry for this abrupt change. I don’t know if the unexpected way this played out makes it harder or not. I knew my last two partings were coming and they were still devastating.
When the time was right, I found a new companion. I know it is an uncertain bargain at our age but I am once again adventuring with a soul mate.
Sit with your loss. Remember all that was special about Thumper. But keep an open heart.
I’m so sorry for your loss and appreciate you sharing this. I have worried about my cats and wondered about owls and eagles while out camping. Maybe consider a traveling cat. They’re easy companions and good snuggles.
I'm so sorry, Carol.
All of us who have lost a pet know it is one of the hardest, saddest things we can experience. My heart goes out to yours.